Saturday, 17 March 2018


Life is so unpredictable that it's imperatives to know some of its secretes just so you can get through the twists and turns it has to offer. Just because you are out of college it does n't mean you have it all figured out. There are a lots of skills that you must possess to go through various hacks and no schools or education will teach you these skills,well not all of them at least. Your biggest teacher will always remains experience and what you learn from it will definitely change your life around in the journey of life  .

In your twenties, you learn to recognize the way of life and the knowledge stays on with you forever, since your twenties is when you start to define life and its purpose. So here are born some important life skills every twenty something should master to become a better man as you grow older.

To be Honest 

Honesty is crucial your formative years as it helps you becomes the bigger person and you would need that kind of learning when you reach your thirties and forties. When you'relate to an appointment, it's easy to pin the blame on traffic and other factors. Instead start by apologizing for being late in the first place and accept your mistakes graciously. It's something you have to learn i order to not risk your integrity.

To start an important conversation

Making or building a conversation is considered as a highly underrated skill. But it's a great skill-set to enhance networking and confidence. If you dare to start up a conversation  with a random person, you'll probably end up with some great and helpful networking, a new friend and an insight into something important.

To communicate Effectively

It doesn't matter what career path that you have chosen for yourself but it matter how effectively you communicate through written word or verbosity. Most successful men ace the skill of communicating efficiently, and with much conviction .

To take criticism

If it's constructive and healthy criticism, it's bound to help in your growth. It's absolutely alright to get feedback for something that will inevitably help you in your growth in your formative years. In order to be success in life, It's important to take in all the necessary criticism that will help you.If the criticism is not helpful or counter-productive  then its best to ignore it and not pay much need to it.

To ask for what you want

If you are confident and assertive about what you want, you'll always achieve it. But the question lies in how to ask for what you want, since it's the most underutilized skill to be success.The answer to that is courage  and confidence. If you deserve a promotion or a rise or even an exception from someone, all you need to o is ask clearly and confidently about what you want.

To keep promise

keeping promise is a way of showing respect towards the other people. If you have made a commitment somewhere, don't backtrack on it later. If you are told a friend that you will there in their birthday, show up. Keeping promise help you understand the concept of commitment and that's where gain most respect from those people.

To be resilient

If you strengthen your might to be resilient at an early age, there is nothing that can deter your spirit latter in life. Resilience is the key towards withstanding any test in the life. your twenty's are when you are retentively  free of responsibilities, unlike your thirty's and forty's. So It's a good time to test extremes and if you fail,bounce back up and show resilience.

To let go anger

There is a way to channelize your rage and frustration in a more positive manner than a negative one. You can use the anger towards channelizing a good amount of of creativity. It's a great tool to let go of anything negative. And if you learn how to do it an earlier age, patience will come to you naturally , later in life.

To face rejection

In your twenty's you face you face a lot of things. New jobs, relationships and experiences and not all of them turn out to be as you  expect them to. It's absolutely OK to let it go of some expectations and face rejection. It's only then you learn to face what life has to offer. Life is not always kind and the sooner you learn that, the better you deal with it.

To accept chance

Image result for HAND SHAKE IMAGEChange is the only constant. You must have heard that enough.But it's true. We have a hard time adjusting to change but change is inevitable and sometimes it's for the better to get accustomed to frequent to change things around in your twenty's. Your habits, interactions, experiences etc. Only then you won't let bigger changes affect you negatively in the later part of your life.

If these skills are successfully achieved in your twenties, then there is a sure shot possibility of you turning out to be the man you always envisioned yourself to be.

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